people change
i remember reading a post with the same topic in my friend’s blog about a year ago… then, our life was still completely normal… and we made judgements of people who have changed so much within a very short time. we questioned their thoughts, actions…. we accused them for being inconsistent, insane, untrue about themselves…
and here we are… in a completely opposite side of the road, by this i mean, in the same side as those people we talked about then. and if those people have changed for the better, we are unsure if ours are too. and i often questioned myself, or more exactly, ensured myself that everything is gonna be alright, that it’s just another path of life that we have to go through, and we will eventually reach that point where we say "yes, those changes are for the better".
a year ago, when we were still in the same land, same old long stable relationship, and felt so secure about ourselves, we saw people from our very small frame of our life-glasses. and recently, with all the drastic changes happened to our lifes, we agreed that anything can happen…. people change… and no accusation shall be made out of it. these fears we have about our life, i think it’s normal… nothing is definite, and it’s perfectly alright to be afraid as long as it doesn’t take us down for so long… i’m not only telling you, i’m telling myself here….and though we still can’t see the end of the road, one thing for sure, these changes have made us a little more mature people.
to my dearest friend: i miss you!
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:47 pm
I miss you too my love….
December 4th, 2007 at 5:14 am
thanks for the mature..
lis..kok ga nulis lagi..